Buat baik di balas baik ke?

There was once, I helped a family member of my husband to the extend that I get as many help as I could. To me, he needed help, I am able to help so I helped. Yes, I know that he did asked me to help him and his family but it was voluntarily. They needed help, so I helped. That was all.

But they sometimes talk about the whole thing but they exclude me. Yup, after all the help that I could get which inclusive of free lodging in London for almost three weeks, asking my father's and my brother's friends to be there for the family, and few small other kind of help, please don't try to make as though it was your relative who did everything. That just bad. I know after that, a few of your relative and 'orang kampung' who is a big shot in government started to help emotionally and as well as physically. But, they are putting it as though I did not play a role at all. I do feel sad. I got a heart okay.

At one point, my husband even said that if my brothers and sister ask for help, it is not important and he doesn't really need to help. If parents, he will help. Only to that extend. I could see where my husband got that kind of attitude. I saw it as a whole. Sampainya hati.